Massage Clitoral & Body Vibrator 101: Why, when and how to use

Meet Massage Clitoral & Body Vibrator: a powerful, flexible vibrator that fits comfortably in your hand.

If you or someone you know is looking for a new vibrator, we have you covered. With Massage, you can enjoy a rounded side for body massages and a curvy side for clitoral or targeted stimulation.

Did you know that more than half of women (52.5 percent) have used a vibrator with nearly one in four having done so in the past month alone? With a statistic like that, make sure you’re using one that meets your needs, and more.

Discover why, when and how using this multi-use clitoral and all-over body vibrator can elevate your intimate moments and self-care routine(s).

What sets Massage apart 

Most palm vibrators or small massagers are designed solely to be placed on intimate areas. We like to think of Massage as a multi-use device that encourages exploration of new feel-good sensations.

Massage was designed ergonomically so that it can be held comfortably and used during intimate moments, like sex or self-care routines like, body massages. Its rounded side is perfect for massaging areas that carry stress or muscle tension, like the shoulders or lower back. Meanwhile, the curved side nestles nicely in between the labial lips and sits on the clitoris. Finally, because it is made with medical-grade silicone, Massage is very soft to the touch and slightly bends when pressed against the body allowing for a sensual experience from head-to-toe.

Massage is:

  • Made with medical-grade silicone: Medical-grade silicone is non-porous, meaning there are no small holes, which prevents the collection of dirt or bacteria. Even more, it’s hypoallergenic, making it safe for those with latex or vinyl allergies. 

  • Phthalate-free: Most toys on the market are not made with body-safe materials. In fact, many include phthalates, which are known to be a reproductive toxicant. But you don’t have to worry about that with Massage, as it is phthalate-free. 

  • Waterproof: Its soft silicone material is waterproof and easy to wash with warm water and unscented soap. You can also use it in the tub or shower, worry-free. 

  • USB-rechargeable: A full charge with our USB charging cable allows up to one hour of continuous use. 

  • Compatible with latex and water-based lubricants: Pair Massage with a water-based lubricant, like Smooth, for comfortable stimulation on desired areas. We also suggest using a dental dam if you’re sharing your toy with a new sexual partner. Note: Massage is not compatible with oil-based products.

Why you should use Massage

Studies show that 75% of people with vulvas don’t orgasm from penetration alone and need some form of clitoral stimulation or added external stimulation in order to reach orgasm. In fact, people with vulvas orgasm 51-60% of the time with simultaneous clitoral stimulation. All this to say, clitoral stimulation is a fun, and sometimes necessary, way to explore pleasure, and there are vibrators out there specifically designed to help you and your partner(s) reach your pleasure goals.

If you prefer external stimulation over internal stimulation like penetration, Massage will be your go-to nightstand bestie. Because of its rounded egg shape, it is not meant to be inserted vaginally or anally. It’s also smaller in size, making it travel-friendly as well as the perfect deskside companion if you ever need a midday massage during work.

If you need another reason to add a vibrator to your cart, here it is: Vibrators can help strengthen intimacy within your relationships, including with yourself and/or your partner(s). These sex toys allow you to explore something new, build novelty and motivate you to invite more pleasure into your day-to-day routine(s). They also boost self-confidence and help you strengthen your relationship with your sexuality and body.

When to use Massage

There are no limits when it comes to play time. You can incorporate Massage into solo masturbation sessions first thing in the morning, right before bed or on your next vacation. In fact, sexologist Rebecca Alvarez Story recommends leaving your toys in areas that you positively associate with rest or self-care. For example, leave Massage on your nightstand or in the shower so it serves as a reminder to make time for pleasure during your everyday routines. 

If you really want to plan out when you use Massage, try this: Plan out a date night where you spend a night in, decompress in your favorite ways and incorporate a couples or solo massage. If you’re using Massage with your partner(s), take this as a fun opportunity to practice sexual communication. Turn on the toy and explore the vibration settings on each other in non-intimate areas like the inner forearm or hand. Once you both agree which settings you prefer, use your words or body language to help guide each other where to place the toy or how much pressure to apply. This is a great exercise to build connection, practice communication and of course help each other feel really good.

How to use Massage


Massage was designed ergonomically and with all intimate areas in mind. That being said, we want to ensure you and your partner(s) get the most out of its features. Massage’s rounded side feels nice to press or run along the body in areas like the back of the neck, shoulders or lower back. The curved side can be placed in between the labial lips so that it sits nicely on the clitoris for a more focused stimulation. Its powerful motor and vibration settings allows you to explore by using any end of the toy for feel-good sensations from head-to-toe.

Step 1 - Charge Massage

Get into the habit of charging your toy right after unboxing and every use. This will maximize your toy’s performance and lifetime.

Step 2 - Get to know Massage

Use Massage’s instruction manual as a guide while you play with the settings. We suggest trying different settings on your inner forearm to discover the ones that best fit your personal needs. 

Step 3 - Add a lube

Apply a water-based lubricant, like Smooth, on your intimate areas and Massage. This layer of lubricant will allow the toy to glide more easily and create a more comfortable experience for first-time users. You can also try rubbing Massage’s curved end on your intimate areas while the vibration settings are off. Immediately placing the toy on the clitoris while the toy is vibrating can feel slightly uncomfortable if the body is not fully aroused or relaxed.

Step 4 - Clean up and store

We recommend cleaning up with warm water and our foaming wash Cleanse. Cleanse is gentle enough to use on both your toy and externally on your intimate areas. Once dry, store Massage in its travel bag to keep it from exposed bacteria.

A final note on Massage

Our line of toys was designed with every body and intimate experience in mind. Whether you’re shopping for your first vibrator or adding one to your collection, allow this experience to open up conversations and opportunities to invite more pleasure into your life either in your day-to-day or your sex life with your partner(s). Massage will be the perfect addition to your nightstand if you’re seeking out ways to decompress or build intimacy through exploration.

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