Your guide to an unforgettable vacation romance this summer
Summer is the perfect season for a romantic vacation romance. And we're not talking about reading a vacation romance book here.
Instead, if you're planning a trip with your friends or solo, you might want to consider finding a vacation fling.
According to a survey from a dating app, Plenty of Fish, even 70% of singles are open to meeting new people while they are on vacation or traveling. So, you won't be the only single looking to mingle, no matter where you travel this summer.
They also found that 49% went on dates, and 40% of people had a vacation fling. It seems that people just love to love while they are away from home.
Plenty of Fish are not the only ones who found that people are interested in vacation romance. A study published in Culture, Health & Sexuality found that even 50% of women travelers reported having a traveling relationship either with a local or with another tourist.
So, if you are one of the 70% of singles interested in meeting new people during your next vacation, let's talk about some essential things you need to know to ensure you have the best experience with your vacation fling.
Your guide to an unforgettable vacation romance
Where to find a date
The good news is that there are many different ways to meet people you might want to date while on vacation. Everyone can find one or more ways to find a date, depending on what feels comfortable and good. Here are a few ideas:
Dating apps
The easiest and most efficient way, and perfect if you're a bit introverted, is through a dating app. Just like you find potential dates while back home, you can just as easily find someone while you're away. And it can be so much fun getting to see what people you can meet abroad.
Some apps, like Hinge, allow you to set the location yourself, so you can start matching with potential dates even before you arrive at your holiday destination.
Summer events
Most holiday destinations have all kinds of events and sightseeing tours you can sign up for. Not only is it fantastic for learning new things about your holiday destination, but it can also be a great way to meet like-minded people.
If you are a foodie, you can look up food tours and meet other people who are interested in experiencing different cuisines. If you're an adventurer, consider looking up hiking or water activities with groups, where you'll have a chance to find a date who shares your love for adventures and an active lifestyle.
Bars and clubs
If you enjoy a good party, then going to bars and clubs will be a very easy way to find a potential vacation date. These locations are often packed with locals and other travelers all looking to have fun.
Restaurants and cafes
If you travel solo, then going for meals to restaurants alone can be a great way to strike up a conversation with people. While on vacation, people are often much more relaxed and happy, and they are much more inclined to start a conversation with an attractive stranger at the table next to them.
Museums and galleries
While not all museums or galleries will be perfect for meeting your next vacation romance, it's still a good place to meet new people. It's quite common for people to go to museums and galleries solo, whether they travel or not, so you can definitely meet someone while you both admire art.
Tips & tricks for the best vacation romance experience
To ensure the best possible vacation romance experience, let's talk about some tips and tricks and things to keep in mind.
Safety
Safety is key when dating abroad. Especially if you're traveling solo. So, make sure that you are always careful when you meet new people. If you are meeting someone for the first time, pick places that are in public, with many people around.
Be cautious about going to a private location immediately such as their home, without vetting them, and don't invite strangers into your hotel room without knowing a little about them too.
Also, it's a good idea to share your location with friends and family at all times. You should also give them updates on who you are meeting, and where. This way, you can feel more safe that your loved ones know what is happening and where you are.
Tailor your dating profile
If you choose to find people to date while on vacation through dating apps, then you might want to tailor your dating profiles to attract the perfect vacation romance. There are a few things you should consider:
1. Set your location beforehand
As we already briefly touched on before, you might want to set the location of your holiday destination on your dating apps beforehand. Hinge allows you to do that free of charge, but the majority of other apps will ask you to pay a fee.
If you're serious about dating while you're away, and want to meet people, it might be worth paying for Tinder Passport, and other similar premium features on other dating apps.
Matching with people and making plans in advance will be easier than doing so once you're at the location. Settling in might be chaotic, with flights, hotel transfers, and you might be too tired to swipe on Tinder. So, prepare in advance and line up a few dates beforehand.
2. Be honest and upfront
It's best to be honest and upfront about your intentions when writing your dating profile bio. Are you looking for a hookup? Or maybe you want someone local to show you around the place?
Make it very clear on your profile what you are looking for and that you're on vacation. This will save you a lot of headaches and heartaches, and make communication so much easier.
3. Consider the location
Depending on where you are traveling to, the rules and customs for dating might vary greatly. Research and consider if the place you're traveling to is LGBTQ+ friendly to avoid possible stress or unwanted interactions. Finding queer scenes or bars could elevate your experience and sense of belonging in a new place.
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Be prepared
Preparation before any trip is essential, and whether or not you plan on having sex, it's good to be prepared for that as well. So, if it's been a while since you last got tested for STIs, you might want to consider doing that before your trip. Also, don’t shy away from asking your sexual partner about when was the last time they’ve been tested. Open communication about things like that is normal and nothing to be uncomfortable about.
Don't forget to pack or purchase condoms or dental dams if you plan to engage in oral, anal, and vaginal sex. Packing some of your favorite sex essentials is also a good idea.
Take a bullet vibrator like Bloomi's Mini with you to have some quality solo time while on vacation, but also to enhance partnered play. It's small and discreet, so you don't have to worry about traveling with it, but it still packs a punch!
And, you should never forget your favorite lube! Bloomi's Smooth is a great water-based lube option that feels good. And the best part – it fits the travel requirements for liquids, so you can easily pack it with you even if you travel only with a carry-on!
Also, pack an outfit or two that makes you feel sexy, confident, and empowered. It will make all the difference when you go on dates, and it gives you an opportunity to wear your special occasion clothes.
Have fun!
It's best to go into this experience with no expectations for anything serious, and simply enjoy your time meeting new people. You might not meet your future long-term partner while on vacation, but you will surely meet amazing people from different places around the world and that is a wonderful experience.
Have fun in new destinations creating spicy memories, and trust your intuition on what feels good for you!