Bloomi's alternative romantic gifts guide: gift your partner an unforgettable experience

Some of the most romantic gifts you can give your partner are experiences and not material things. That's especially true if your partner is one of those people who seems to have all they want already. 

Also, gifting your partner an experience for the holiday’s can be a phenomenal way to deepen your intimacy and emotional connection. If you choose to gift an experience that neither of you tried before, it can be super fun to try new things together. In addition, experience gifts are great if you’ve missed delivery deadlines or don’t have time to go holiday shopping in person.

Novelty is what keeps the passion alive in long-term relationships, and gifting your partner a new experience to try together can be a great way to bring more novelty into your life. 

So, we put together a quick alternative romantic gifts guide of the best experiences you can give to your partner, depending on their likes and personality.

Bloomi's alternative romantic gifts guide: gift your partner an unforgettable experience

Gifts for relaxation & restoration

If your partner had a busy and tense year, and they enjoy pampering and self-care sessions, a very thoughtful gifted experience for them would be something that would allow them to relax, unwind, and feel taken care of. 

1. A staycation at the hotel

Has your loved one been yearning for a vacation or rest this year? Consider gifting a staycation. A day or weekend at a local hotel can be a very romantic gift. Consider finding a nice hotel that fits your budget, and gift your partner a little escape from the daily routine. Depending on what your partner would prefer, you can either do a staycation together or if your partner could use a little bit of quality time alone, then consider gifting them a solo weekend.

If you are headed to the hotel for the weekend together though, don't forget to pack your essentials! You'll definitely want to pack a water-based lube and your favorite toy just in case you and your partner are in the mood to have some fun, you can get these at Target. 

2. Spa Day

Whether your loved one is a busy parent, a stressed student or just has had a year. Consider a spa day where you can get a couples massage or manicures plus pedicures. 

You can even bring our Luxe Massage Oil with CBD to the massage for some extra TLC or our Desire Sensual Pleasure Oil for extra moisture and botanical aphrodisiacs. 

Gifts for creative expression

Everyone has a little creative genius within themselves, and art therapy can be a phenomenal way to relieve stress. If your partner is always looking for new creative endeavors, why not gift them an artistic experience that you can enjoy together?

3. Pottery class

A pottery class can be a fantastic gift for your partner if they love art, crafts, and all types of creative activities. You can find a pottery class for couples, or choose one for small groups and have a lot of fun! Pottery classes can offer therapeutic benefits and stress relief. Want to make it even more romantic? Consider making an item in the pottery class to gift them. To find a local pottery class, Google: "pottery class + your location."

4. Painting class 

You and your partner don't have to be creative, or even good at painting to consider this gift. Painting classes for couples can be a fantastic way to spend quality time together, relax, and tap into your inner child. Painting can be very soothing, even if you only draw doodles on the page. To find local painting classes Google: "couples' painting class + your location."

Alternative: for those who want to try a painting class, but who don't want to leave their house or simply don't live close enough to a location that does painting classes, there is a super fun alternative!

Love is Art is a company that does couples painting kits. You can choose from a selection of different painting kits, and order one directly to your home. You can have the same experience in the comfort of your own home! Book a sitter or make sure you have the house alone for extra romance and one-on-one time. 

Gifts for outdoor enthusiasts

Spending time outdoors is great for physical and mental health. It can also be good for your relationship, especially if you and your partner often find yourself too busy to connect during the week. Take a weekend off, venture into nature, and get to know each other all over again with these gifts:

5. Day trip in the nature

A day trip to a local beach or a national park can be a unique and special gift if your partner is a nature lover. Consider what type of nature your partner enjoys or mentions – do they prefer the ocean, mountains, or even the forests? It gives you both some quality time together, and you get to change the environment and come back home refreshed. If the weather is not ample for outdoor trips consider an indoor botanical garden or aquarium. No matter where you live, you can certainly find an interesting place to visit that gets you both grounded in nature. 

6. Glamping trip 

For all nature lovers, or simply lovers of adventures, a glamping trip can be one of the most romantic gifts. Imagine, just you and your partner, in the comfort of a luxurious tent, your own fireplace where you can make smores and enjoy the view of nature. Don't forget to pack Cleanse – it is a foaming cleanser great for a quick refresh when you're out in nature! 

Gifts for satisfying your tastebuds

Does your partner love trying out new restaurants and tasting delicious food? If the answer is yes, then they will love a food-related experience as a gift. Their tastebuds will be satisfied, and you two will get a chance to leave the house and spend some quality time together.

7. Food tour 

Is your partner a foodie? Are they always excited to try new restaurants, cafes, and recipes at home? Well, then you definitely want to gift them a food tour experience that they will surely enjoy. Avital is an excellent food tour company that organizes food tours all over New York City, for groups and couples. 

8. Wine tasting

If your partner is a wine connoisseur, or if they simply enjoy a glass of wine after a long day to help them unwind, then why not gift them a wine-tasting experience? It can be one of the most romantic gifts because wine tastings tend to be in small, intimate groups or you might even find a private wine-tasting experience for couples. 

Check for local wine-tasting experiences at wine bars, restaurants, and wineries.

9. A cooking or baking class

Why not learn a new recipe or a few, or how to bake sourdough bread together with your partner? If your partner enjoys cooking and baking, consider gifting them a cooking or baking class for Christmas this year. 

Consider what cuisine your partner enjoys the most when going to restaurants or ordering takeout, and book a class – they will appreciate the thoughtful gift. It can be a very fun and intimate activity to do, and you'll get to try delicious food. Bonus points if the meal includes aphrodisiacs such as oysters, strawberries, and dark chocolate.