A guide to the best vibrators for every occasion

With so many great sex toy options available on the market, it's natural to feel overwhelmed when choosing the best vibrator for your needs.

You might be asking yourself which vibrator shape feels the best, or which type of toy will be the most versatile. We have put together an ultimate guide on the best vibrators to choose from to help you find answers to all of your questions and find the best toy for you. 

What is a vibrator?

A vibrator is a sex toy that is designed to stimulate various body parts for sexual pleasure with vibrations. Vibrators can come in many different sizes, shapes, and colors and can be made of various materials like plastic, metal, and silicone. 

Some vibrators are for external use alone (think bullet vibrators), while others are designed to be used internally and externally (think g-spot vibrators).

Many vulva owners report that using a vibrator during solo play sessions is one of the easiest ways for them to reach an orgasm. So, a vibrator is definitely a useful toy to have in your sex toy collection.

The 21 best vibrators

Before we get into the list, it’s important to note that while these are some of the most popular and highly rated vibrators, not all of them fully meet the Bloomi Clean Standard. We believe sex toys should be designed from non-toxic materials such as 100% medical-grade silicone and stainless steel.

For that reason, we strongly suggest doing the research to ensure toxic ingredients don’t touch your intimate areas. We can only vouch for Bloomi’s collection of vibrators, which are free from toxic ingredients that irritate intimate skin, cause allergic reactions, lead to vaginal infections or interfere with the body’s hormonal levels and reproductive processes,

Play Mini Vibrator

A compact, curvy vibrator that nestles nicely in your hand for targeted stimulation.

Bullet vibrators

A bullet vibrator is a small external vibe designed for clitoral stimulation. Its name comes from the original shape, which was long and cylindrical, reminiscent of a bullet. However, you can find external clitoral vibes that are shaped in different forms.

For purposes of this guide, we use the term “bullet” as we understand that it’s the most well-known terminology for this style of vibrator. However, for obvious reasons, we don’t like the name. That’s why we choose the phrase mini vibrator instead.

Is the bullet vibrator right for you?

The bullet vibrator is the best vibe for beginners. It's discreet and small, so you can easily store it if you are worried about privacy or travel with it for self-pleasure on the go. 

It's also a perfect choice for people who prefer clitoral stimulation when masturbating rather than penetrative stimulation. Clitoral stimulation is one of the fastest and easiest ways for many vulva owners to orgasm, so if you are learning how to have an orgasm or want a toy to help you enhance your clitoral orgasms, then a bullet vibrator is an excellent choice.

Best bullet vibrator recommendations

Bloomi’s Play Mini Vibrator is a compact, curvy toy that nestles nicely in your hand for targeted stimulation. You can enjoy two sides for versatile pleasure. The round side feels nice to rub anywhere, while the curvy side nestles on the clitoris or anus for focused stimulation.

Another option: Dame's Kip. This bullet vibrator offers more precise clitoral stimulation and is perfect for travel. It's made with medical-grade silicone, is waterproof and has five intensity settings and patterns to choose from.

Lastly, Maude's Vibe is another great clitoral vibrator. The unique space offers precise clitoral stimulation with one end, and broader stimulation with the other end. It's made with platinum-grade silicone and has three different intensities and patterns.

Bullet vibrator tips and tricks

The bullet is the best vibrator for sex with your partner. If you need external clitoral stimulation to climax (which most women do, so you're not alone), hold the bullet vibrator against your clit during intercourse. It's small and discreet to fit between your and your partner's body in various positions and is super easy to hold in place. 


Wand vibrators

Wand vibrators or massagers are handheld vibrators with a vibrating head at the end. They come in various sizes, from mini versions to the original large size. Usually, these vibrators offer much stronger vibrations than a bullet vibrator does. And due to their shape and size, these vibrators are very versatile. 

Is the wand vibrator right for you?

If external clitoral stimulation is your go-to type of stimulation during self-pleasure sessions, then the wand vibrator is an excellent choice. You can easily hold the vibrator in your hand and hold it against your vulva. 

Also, wand vibrators can double as body massagers due to the shape of their vibrating head. So, if your vibrator has strong enough vibrations, you can also use it as a muscle massager to help you relax. 

Keep in mind that wand vibrators tend to be extra powerful, and some vulva owners report that even on the lowest setting, they find the vibrations to be too intense. So, if you are sensitive, consider a less powerful wand massager, or always have a barrier between the toy and your intimate areas to help soften the vibrations. 

Best wand vibrator recommendations

Nirvana by Bellesa is a good size wand massager with a sleek and comfortable design. It's slightly curved for easier access to the clitoris while you hold it in your hand and is waterproof so you can take it with you to the shower.

Lelo's Smart Wand 2 is another option. It's made with platinum-grade silicone that feels smooth against your skin, is waterproof so you can play in the shower or bath, and has 10 different intensity settings for you to choose from. 

Lastly, Dame's Com is another wonderful wand vibrator. It's made with medical-grade silicone and has five different patterns and intensities. The vibrations are rumbly, and the ergonomic shape makes it very comfortable to hold. 

Wand vibrator tips and tricks

Use the wand vibrator on various parts of your body (like the neck, nipples, and inner thighs) as a form of foreplay to get turned on before you use the vibrations on your intimate areas. 

Also, if you want a new self-pleasure position, you can place the wand between pillows and enjoy hands-free pleasure. Simply position yourself so that you can grind your clitoris against the head of the massage wand.


Suction vibrators

Suction vibrators are the type of external clitoral vibrator that uses pulses of air to stimulate the clitoris and mimic the sensation of oral sex. Different brands have slightly different technologies for how they utilize air pulses for stimulation, so you might want to play around with different brands to find the one that works the best.

Is the suction vibrator right for you?

If you want a vibrator that mimics the sensation of oral sex, then the suction vibrator will be a perfect choice. These vibrators do offer a very different stimulation experience compared with the regular vibrator. So even if you don't usually find bullets or rabbit vibrators pleasurable, a suction vibrator might surprise you. 

Best suction vibrator recommendations

Dame's Aer has a modern and clean design. It's very small and discreet, made from smooth medical-grade silicone, and offers five different intensities and patterns for you to enjoy. 

Lelo's Sila offers sonic wave technology that offers a unique type of clitoral stimulation without making direct contact with the clitoris. It's made with platinum-grade silicone, has eight different settings, and is whisper quiet so you can use it without the fear of someone hearing you.

Lastly, Womanizer's Classic 2 is one more suction vibrator you want to try. It has its unique Pleasure Air Technology and comes with two different-sized heads which accommodate different bodies better. The toy is waterproof, has 10 intensity levels, and even an "afterglow" setting which is designed specifically for a relaxing end of an orgasm. 

Suction vibrator tips and tricks

Suction vibrators can be fantastic not only on your clitoris but also on your nipples. This toy can easily double down as a nipple stimulator, so experiment with how it feels if you enjoy nipple stimulation. 

Indulge Double-Sided Vibrator

A powerful, flexible device to stimulate your G-spot and more.

G-spot vibrators

G-spot vibrators are vibrators designed to target one of the external vaginal pleasure zones, the G-spot. These vibrators tend to have a similar curved shape which makes them comfortable to hold while hitting the right area internally. 

While the vibrator is designed for internal stimulation, it's also versatile enough to be used for external clitoral stimulation and even anal stimulation for both, vulva and penis owners. 

Is the G-spot vibrator right for you?

The G-spot vibrator is also a more advanced sex toy and is the best option for people who enjoy penetrative stimulation during self-pleasure sessions. While it's versatile enough to be used as a clitoral vibe, which technically makes it a beginner-friendly toy, a G-spot vibrator is best for exploring internal vaginal pleasure zones. 

Best g-spot vibrator recommendations

Bloomi's Indulge is a very unique G-spot vibrator because it's dual-ended. One side is vibrating, while the other is not, giving you more options for different types of stimulation. It's made with medical-grade silicone and has a curved shape that makes it easy to hold in your hand while targeting all the right pleasure zones.

Another great option is Lelo's Mona 2. This G-spot massager has a sleek and modern design, and the vibrating tip offers precise and pleasurable G-spot stimulation. It's waterproof and safe to use in the shower or bath and has six different intensity settings.

Lastly, Dame's Arc is the perfect option for targeted G-spot stimulation. The curved shape makes it easy to hold in your hand and the rounded head at the top allows for precise G-spot stimulation. It's waterproof and made with medical-grade silicone. 

G-spot vibrator tips and tricks

Don't only stick with G-spot stimulation when using this vibrator. There is more than one vaginal pleasure zone, and a G-spot vibrator is a great tool to explore them all. While targeting one area alone might be difficult, play around with different angles and pressure to figure out what feels the best. 


Rabbit vibrators 

Rabbit vibrators are probably the second most popular vibrators after the bullet vibrator. And not without a reason. A rabbit vibrator got its name from the first original vibrator which had a clitoral stimulation sleeve shaped like a rabbit's head. However, you can find a rabbit vibrator with a more modern design now if you are not a fan of rabbit ears. 

Rabbit vibrator offers dual stimulation, with one external sleeve focused on clitoral stimulation and one internal sleeve focused on internal g-spot stimulation. Perfect toy for achieving blended orgasms. 

Is the rabbit vibrator right for you?

Rabbit vibrators are a bit more advanced than bullets or wand massagers. Because of it, it's not recommended as a first-time toy for people who haven't had an experience with a sex toy before. 

It's a wonderful option for those who enjoy both internal and external stimulation during masturbation sessions. Due to dual stimulation of the clitoris and G-spot, it's very easy and fast to achieve an orgasm.

Best rabbit vibrator recommendations

If you want a modern and luxurious rabbit vibrator, then Lelo's Soraya is for you. It's made with platinum-grade silicone, even 12 different intensities, and has a broader internal sleeve tip, for a more targeted G-spot stimulation.

We-Vibe's Nova 2 is another great modern rabbit vibrator option. It's waterproof, made with platinum-grade silicone, and has an internal sleeve that adjusts to fit your individual body better. 

For a more playful option, we have Unbound's Clutch. It's a powerful vibrator with seven intensities and five pattern settings which gives a unique thrusting sensation, and is waterproof so you can take it with you to the shower or bath. 

Rabbit vibrator tips and tricks

A rabbit vibrator can be used for a partnered masturbation session with your partner. Get comfortable with your rabbit, while giving your partner a good view of you and the toy. Allowing your partner to watch you pleasure yourself the way you want can be a very arousing and intimate activity for both of you.


Anal vibrators

Anal vibrators are most often vibrating beads, vibrating anal plugs, or prostate massagers designed to stimulate the anus area and pleasure spots (like the prostate) inside the rectum. They come in different shapes and sizes, depending on the user experience level and needs. 

Is the vibrating anal plug right for you?

Anal vibrators are not for anal sex beginners but better for more advanced users who are looking to expand their sexual horizons further. It's also the perfect toy for people looking to experiment with prostate orgasms. 

Best vibrating anal plug recommendations

b-Vibe's Rimming Plug is a great option for optimal pleasure. This plug is designed with rotating beads at the base, which simulates the sensation of rimming. It has different sizes to fit everyone's preference and experience levels and even has a remote control for hands-free pleasure. 

For vibrating anal beads, b-Vibe's Triplet Anal Beads is a great option. It's made with body-safe silicone, comes with a remote control, and has even 15 vibration patterns to explore. 

Lastly, b-Vibe's Novice Plug is the perfect beginner-friendly vibrating anal plug. It's small, has a remote control for hands-free pleasure and six vibration levels, and 15 vibration patterns for you to choose from. 

Vibrating anal plug tips and tricks

Combine using a vibrating anal plug with other types of stimulation as well. It can feel very pleasurable if you have an anal plug inserted during intercourse with your partner, or a penetrative sex toy. Play around with it and see what feels best. 

Cleanse Intimate Skin Foaming Wash

A clean, aloe-based foam to wash your vibrators after each use.

Vibrator care instructions

If you find a vibrator you love, you want to ensure the toy's longevity so you can use it for many years to come. Cleaning and storing your vibrator ensures that the toy stays in the best condition for longer. 

To clean your vibrator, you can use cleansers such as Cleanse, specifically designed to clean sex toys. Or, you can simply use warm water and unscented soap. Clean your vibrator after every use to avoid bacteria buildup. 

When it comes to storing your sex toy, always keep it in a separate pouch (most vibrators come with one) and away from direct sunlight. If you have more than one silicone vibrator, always store them in individual pouches to avoid silicone touching, which can ruin the material. 

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